Ruth Jenkinson from near Great Dunmow balances fostering with running her own busy photography business and training with her local rowing club.
“This type of fostering fits into my life and has enhanced it greatly. It gives me the flexibility to care for foster children depending on my workload at the time. I guess that would be my biggest bit of advice if you decide to foster. Be clear with Social Services on exactly what you can offer, and they will match you with the right type of foster care, resulting in the most joyous experience”.
Ruth has been fostering for six years now on her own. In that time she has welcomed approximately 20 young people into her home. Most have been teenagers, but she has also cared for siblings aged 2 and 3, providing respite care and emergency placements.
“Never underestimate the impact you might have on a young person, even if you’re only with them for a short period of time. You may feel like you’re doing nothing but giving them time. That’s something they might not have experienced before though. A break can do wonders for their wellbeing with that moment of respite giving them renewed fortitude”.
Ruth has a cat called Buttons at home, who she credits for helping to break the ice when new foster children come to stay. She finds that the most rewarding thing is when a child starts to interact, after not being able to talk even look at someone.
“They go from being quite agitated to asking you questions and choosing to sit with you. You see them starting to relax and being calm again. I guess it's just nice for them to be physically away from the stress, giving them time to breathe and feel safe.” Read Ruth's full story here.