Nicola and her husband, Tony had always wanted to foster, talking about it for a very long time as a possibility. After a few high-profile news stories of children who were harmed by their parents, they decide to register.
"We knew that we wouldn’t be able to help all children, but we wanted to help as many as we could whilst we can. It was never the plan to foster a child with disabilities, but fate intervened."
Shortly after qualifying as foster carers, Tony was made reductant and became the primary carer. Their social worker spoke to us about a child who needed full-time care due to having learning difficulties and autism.
"We would not have been able to look after her, if it wasn’t for my husband being at home. Initially, Tony was naturally apprehensive as he had no experience looking after those with disabilities, but as a nurse with experience across different specialisms I encouraged him to consider it, and it’s the best thing we have ever done."
"He quickly got used to the child’s individual needs and has had amazing support from Essex County Council. First aid courses, a caring social worker and plenty of support groups have all boosted his confidence and bolstered his experience."
"Over the last decade it has changed our lives exponentially, having a very positive effect on everyone. Especially our two biological children. They appreciate the things in life most take for granted, such as food and shelter, and regard everything they have as a blessing. They understand that family comes first, and possessions are second.
"We don’t see them as special needs children – they are simply children with individual needs."
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